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If you are new to online flirting and find yourself overwhelmed by the idea, then you have come to the right place for help!

The truth is that the same tactics work for online flirting that work in real life. All successful relationships begin with flirting. Flirting is an art that requires a lot of confidence, but yet you must be careful that you don’t come across as an ass. If you unerringly go too far, she may label you ‘slimy’, and yet if you restrain yourself too much, she may label you ‘wimpy’. Your next question would be how to achieve that half way point online without any form of eye contact or body language.

All that you have at the moment is a computer with an internet connection, and your newly acquired membership to an online dating site… right?

Along with that, there are a few things that you should keep in mind.

1. Enjoy yourself! Be light-hearted, funny and amusing. Entertain her, make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
2. Ooze confidence. Successful ‘flirts’ have a very positive outlook on life. You need to spread the ‘feel good’ factor. An optimistic attitude attracts females like nobody’s business.
3. Compliment her… make sure that you do it often, and that you do it sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. She will start wanting to spend more time with you. You must remember that if she pays you a compliment, say “thank you”. Never be self depreciating.
4. Listen…listen….listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask her appropriate questions. Get her to open up to you and really talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. (I do hope that you are actually interested in her.)
5. Never be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit, nor does it include taking offence if the woman isn’t reacting to what you’re saying. If she isn’t interested in you, then take the hint and move on to your next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections one after the other, you should probably consider a different approach.
6. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a ‘thank you note’ for a gift, and it is vital for being successful at flirting.

The last thing is that you must not try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship, and you will invariably find that it is worth the wait.